Monday, December 11, 2006
Tuesday, November 28, 2006
Monday, November 27, 2006
Quiet ? No, I am Not.
Some friends asked me why am I so quiet ? Why nothing written on my blog ?
Am I a quiet person ? No, that is why they asked.
Have actually been involved in battles of words after battles. That's why I chose to be quiet now. Battles of words is like D chicken and D eggs, 先有鸡还先有蛋 ? No body can answer. But we still engage in the debate. Who is right and who is wrong ? There wil be no answer, either. Then Who is more right and who is more wrong ? No answer. too. Who started the whole thing? Again no body can tell. There is also no beginning and there will be no end, if no body wants quit i.e. to admit being " a loser ".
So, at times, I chose to be a loser. I chose to quit, even though it is not 'my style' (as I have told my daughters). BUT I did quit, admitting loser in the battles of words.
I have always tell my friends, though some do not agree.
Especially in husband-wife relationship, I many a times do not chose to win a battle because I believe in winning a war, rather than a battle. What is the point of winning battles after battles, when in the end you are going to lose the marriage, or so called - a WAR.
So, at time, I will choose to be quiet even though I am never a quiet person.
Am I a quiet person ? No, that is why they asked.
Have actually been involved in battles of words after battles. That's why I chose to be quiet now. Battles of words is like D chicken and D eggs, 先有鸡还先有蛋 ? No body can answer. But we still engage in the debate. Who is right and who is wrong ? There wil be no answer, either. Then Who is more right and who is more wrong ? No answer. too. Who started the whole thing? Again no body can tell. There is also no beginning and there will be no end, if no body wants quit i.e. to admit being " a loser ".
So, at times, I chose to be a loser. I chose to quit, even though it is not 'my style' (as I have told my daughters). BUT I did quit, admitting loser in the battles of words.
I have always tell my friends, though some do not agree.
Especially in husband-wife relationship, I many a times do not chose to win a battle because I believe in winning a war, rather than a battle. What is the point of winning battles after battles, when in the end you are going to lose the marriage, or so called - a WAR.
So, at time, I will choose to be quiet even though I am never a quiet person.
Monday, October 02, 2006
Friday, September 01, 2006
LOVE
Love is letting go
Not holding on
Love is loving everyone
And not just some.
Love means demonstrating
What true love can do
By bringing joy to many
And not just one or two.
I was searching through my files for more information to be added in for my presentation and I found this little poem. This poem is from Phyllis Krystal Book - " Reconnecting The Love Energy ".
Not holding on
Love is loving everyone
And not just some.
Love means demonstrating
What true love can do
By bringing joy to many
And not just one or two.
I was searching through my files for more information to be added in for my presentation and I found this little poem. This poem is from Phyllis Krystal Book - " Reconnecting The Love Energy ".
Sunday, July 09, 2006
Before and After
I always taught those who spoke well and loud triumph,
But now I think other wise.
The great speaker created a storm,
leaving behind him echoes cherished by none.
I was taught to believe “Be assertive” puts you on a upper hand
But now I do not think so.
You need only pause and listen to the ‘judgment’ lavished on you
The speaker will then tone himself down
and change his opinions lamented.
I used to believe you need colourful objects to attract children to learn
But this certainly is not so.
The children focus well after a short period of silent sitting.
I used to think by the age of fifty plus I would have learnt and done enough
to do nothing and laze around
But looks like I am wrong.
There are many, many more for me to learn and to do …….
But now I think other wise.
The great speaker created a storm,
leaving behind him echoes cherished by none.
I was taught to believe “Be assertive” puts you on a upper hand
But now I do not think so.
You need only pause and listen to the ‘judgment’ lavished on you
The speaker will then tone himself down
and change his opinions lamented.
I used to believe you need colourful objects to attract children to learn
But this certainly is not so.
The children focus well after a short period of silent sitting.
I used to think by the age of fifty plus I would have learnt and done enough
to do nothing and laze around
But looks like I am wrong.
There are many, many more for me to learn and to do …….
Wednesday, June 14, 2006
100% Responsible
The teachers said that in a relationship between two persons, one person is 100% responsible for the relationship and not 50-50 each.
I am practising the 100% responsibilty relationship. Ask me how? So far so good, it is taking effect.
I am practising the 100% responsibilty relationship. Ask me how? So far so good, it is taking effect.
Friday, June 09, 2006
Wednesday, June 07, 2006
Thursday, June 01, 2006
Looks like I do not need a Blog
Looks like I do not need a Blog. Coz each time I log in, I really hope that some one has put in something new for me, In My Blog? Funny? Why do I have this idea? Coz I have another Blog, saibangsarsca and have sister and brother in law who are kind enough and good enough to always upload and write something. I used to have a friend too whom I have given him all particulars and each time I wrote something in English, I only need to call him and he will do the translation for me. Then he will upload the photo for me. So each time when I sign in, I am so happy that there are new things. So, who is to be blame for my wish that each time I log in my blog, something new will be appearing for me to read and see.
Friday, May 26, 2006
Buddha Poornima Celebration in Whitefield, India
on 14th May 2006, after our Choir performance in front of Bhagawan Sri Sathya Sai Baba, Swami materilised a gold chain and presented it to our Conductor Bro Stanley Cheong. Bro See Kim Boon was asked to help to put on the gold chain. Bro Billy Fong, the president of the Malaysian Sathya Sai Central Council and Sis Kim Lian witnessed the event with great joy.
Sunday, March 12, 2006
Another session of songs
Singing requests and contracts pouring in. ..hehe ...
Guess there will be no holding back from now on.
11 March 2006, Li Chia held a BBQ Lamb dinner treat at her house in Nilai. Sumptous dinner, lambs, fine ckes and cookies and then Terence's red wine.
Later in the night, after long session of negotiations and re-negotiations between our 'business managers' and the hostess. FINALLY, really finally, we CONSENTED to sing for her guests.
Ha, ha We had a great night.
There will be no holding back, we are on the path to songs and musics.... Bravo
Guess there will be no holding back from now on.
11 March 2006, Li Chia held a BBQ Lamb dinner treat at her house in Nilai. Sumptous dinner, lambs, fine ckes and cookies and then Terence's red wine.
Later in the night, after long session of negotiations and re-negotiations between our 'business managers' and the hostess. FINALLY, really finally, we CONSENTED to sing for her guests.
Ha, ha We had a great night.
There will be no holding back, we are on the path to songs and musics.... Bravo
Friday, March 10, 2006
And the list goes on
Singing... easy, some may say.
Singing in Public. All these requisites like voice, skills, overcoming stage fright.. the list goes on are a must.
But, singing is fun, singing is fulfilling and singing is exciting, at least to me and our 'kaki'.
Singing is also tough job, singing is pain taking and singing is challenging etc etc etc
It is like once the Cookies' commercial " Now you see, now you donot." Yeah, you thought you have mastered it, then you realize, no, you have not. And when you tell some one you have attended vocal training for 2-3 years, they will tell you, ' yeah, still a long way to go.'
Some may ask, why spend so much times, effort etc to learn, there is no hope that you will become singers.. TRUE. BUT, me and my ' kaki' will tell you singing is fun, singing is fufilling, singing is exciting and the list goes on...
MAY ALL SING WELL
Singing in Public. All these requisites like voice, skills, overcoming stage fright.. the list goes on are a must.
But, singing is fun, singing is fulfilling and singing is exciting, at least to me and our 'kaki'.
Singing is also tough job, singing is pain taking and singing is challenging etc etc etc
It is like once the Cookies' commercial " Now you see, now you donot." Yeah, you thought you have mastered it, then you realize, no, you have not. And when you tell some one you have attended vocal training for 2-3 years, they will tell you, ' yeah, still a long way to go.'
Some may ask, why spend so much times, effort etc to learn, there is no hope that you will become singers.. TRUE. BUT, me and my ' kaki' will tell you singing is fun, singing is fufilling, singing is exciting and the list goes on...
MAY ALL SING WELL
Wednesday, March 08, 2006
Time flies ... NO.. it spins
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Thursday, March 02, 2006
DO I NEED A BLOG???
Have created a Blog for my Bhajan Unit.
Reading my son's blog; posting a comment to his article. I need a blog to post the comments. I then used the Blog for the BU. Then, ideas flashed in; Do I need a Blog? A personal one. Do I really need one? I am already fifty over, do I still need a Blog?
Then... yeah, Why not ? But ... For What ? For Whom?
Yeah for myself and for evrybody whom I want them to know me;
So ....
SINCERELY YOURS.
Reading my son's blog; posting a comment to his article. I need a blog to post the comments. I then used the Blog for the BU. Then, ideas flashed in; Do I need a Blog? A personal one. Do I really need one? I am already fifty over, do I still need a Blog?
Then... yeah, Why not ? But ... For What ? For Whom?
Yeah for myself and for evrybody whom I want them to know me;
So ....
SINCERELY YOURS.
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