Frog ? Horse ? I am right. You are right.(转载)

一张我喜爱的照片

喜欢吧吧的仁慈,
喜欢大家的虔诚,
喜欢那祥和的气分.

Quiet ? No, I am Not.

Some friends asked me why am I so quiet ? Why nothing written on my blog ?

Am I a quiet person ? No, that is why they asked.

Have actually been involved in battles of words after battles. That's why I chose to be quiet now. Battles of words is like D chicken and D eggs, 先有鸡还先有蛋 ? No body can answer. But we still engage in the debate. Who is right and who is wrong ? There wil be no answer, either. Then Who is more right and who is more wrong ? No answer. too. Who started the whole thing? Again no body can tell. There is also no beginning and there will be no end, if no body wants quit i.e. to admit being " a loser ".

So, at times, I chose to be a loser. I chose to quit, even though it is not 'my style' (as I have told my daughters). BUT I did quit, admitting loser in the battles of words.

I have always tell my friends, though some do not agree.

Especially in husband-wife relationship, I many a times do not chose to win a battle because I believe in winning a war, rather than a battle. What is the point of winning battles after battles, when in the end you are going to lose the marriage, or so called - a WAR.

So, at time, I will choose to be quiet even though I am never a quiet person.