Some friends asked me why am I so quiet ? Why nothing written on my blog ?
Am I a quiet person ? No, that is why they asked.
Have actually been involved in battles of words after battles. That's why I chose to be quiet now. Battles of words is like D chicken and D eggs, 先有鸡还先有蛋 ? No body can answer. But we still engage in the debate. Who is right and who is wrong ? There wil be no answer, either. Then Who is more right and who is more wrong ? No answer. too. Who started the whole thing? Again no body can tell. There is also no beginning and there will be no end, if no body wants quit i.e. to admit being " a loser ".
So, at times, I chose to be a loser. I chose to quit, even though it is not 'my style' (as I have told my daughters). BUT I did quit, admitting loser in the battles of words.
I have always tell my friends, though some do not agree.
Especially in husband-wife relationship, I many a times do not chose to win a battle because I believe in winning a war, rather than a battle. What is the point of winning battles after battles, when in the end you are going to lose the marriage, or so called - a WAR.
So, at time, I will choose to be quiet even though I am never a quiet person.
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2 comments:
Some people disagrees with you may be because..
1. u r not correct.
2. regardless the truth, just wants to be dissimilar with whatever u say. Because u always appears to be too smart.
3. Out of jealousy.
4. Motive of personal benefit.
5...
6...
7. God knows what is the cause...
to 'quit' does not mean t be a loser,
to 'quit' gives you room & time to cool down, so that you have leeway to think in a correct perspective.
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